Towards Multidimensional Approach to Researching (Non)Monogamy in Nonheterosexual Relationships

Abstract

Research shows that monogamy is a prevalent choice within non-heterosexual communities. However, the complexity of non-monogamous choices and practices, as well as attitudes toward non-monogamy in LGBTQ communities, remains underexplored. This article looks closely at monogamy and non-monogamy as relational choices in non-heterosexual relationships in Poland, with the aim of shedding light on the multidimensional nature of (non-)monogamy. Drawing on the family practices approach and geographies of sexualities, I closely examine the narratives and practices surrounding      (non-)monogamy within the local sociocultural context. I introduce three key dimensions of (non-)monogamy in this article: (1) declarations and practices, (2) normativity and reflectiveness, and (3) consistency and variability. This investigation is a qualitative multimethod project, “Families of Choice in Poland”, which includes 53 individual in-depth narrative interviews with non-heterosexual individuals and an ethnographic study with 21 non-heterosexual families. The ethnographic study employs intensive participatory observation and 125 thematic narrative interviews. Through this unique perspective and comprehensive qualitative analysis, the article contributes to a nuanced understanding of (non-)monogamous choices within non-heterosexual relationships, addressing critical gaps in the literature on intimate relationships, as well as geographies of sexualities and intimacies.